A while back, while we were dining over fine cuisine at the Waffle House, a friend of mine asked if I had ever considered the fact that my ex-boyfriend was … I stopped her right there, because I knew exactly what she was going to say, and I confirmed her sentiment. She then became incredulous as to how I could be so nonchalant about the fact that my ex-boyfriend probably slept with other men. If a man can hide a wife, he can hide a boyfriend or husband. Sexuality and masculinity are invariably intertwined in our culture, and we put so much emphasis on how manly a man needs to be.
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What It's Like When You're A Man Who Sleeps With Men And Women
It's one of the oldest cliches in the book, that somehow having sex with a man makes you less 'manly' and less attractive to women. But actually the opposite is often true, and society is finally catching on. I'm a bisexual man. I've had sex with men, women and long lasting relationships with both. Personally, I have no preference. If I find someone entertaining or sexy I'll go for it, we'll work out what's going on in the bedroom when we get there. To me having sex with a woman is amazing and having sex with a man is amazing for different reasons.
Bisexual men are turning to me for advice because they feel alone – but they’re not
Illustration by Ben Thomson. Amber Rose, the model and famed ex of Kanye West, recently stated that although she is attracted to men and women, she would not date a bisexual man. Despite this lingering stigma, the experiences of heterosexual women in committed relationships with bisexual men have never really been examined.
There are plenty of women out there who actually prefer to date and have sex with bi men — in fact, they even go out of their way to find them. I think many straight men have been poisoned by this concept of masculinity that centers around punishing emotions. I just think many straight men have never had to think about their role before, and even for straight people, thinking about the kind of partner they want to be should be mandatory. I like dating bisexual men because I don't feel the need to explain myself to them.